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Common Dating Frustrations Men Face, Solved
Dating is hard for both men and women, and most guys will tell you that they feel like dating women is often an uphill battle. The truth is that even the biggest Casanovas on the block will have moments where they just don't understand girls.
Thankfully, we live in an age where the internet can help you get the dating skills you need in order to succeed. Experts say that these are the most common dating frustrations men have. Here's how to overcome each one.
No woman ever approaches you.
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Most guys have had a moment where they wondered why they just aren't getting girls walking up to them. The truth is that expecting women to make the first move isn't wise on a number of levels - unless, of course, you're an A-list celebrity.
Even in today's progressive society, most people still expect guys to make the first move. Women who are okay with talking to guys often worry about making the first move since they don't want to give the impression that they're "easy," and because they're worried about appearing desperate.
The fact is that dating and sex is, primarily, a numbers game with just little dashes of skill and luck involved. The more women you approach, the more success you'll have. Stop letting opportunities pass you by, and start talking to girls.
You keep getting rejected, no matter who you ask.
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Solving this problem isn't easy - for a number of reasons. It's a hard problem to solve, but also one that pays off in a number of ways once you do solve it.
In order to get some semblance of relationship success, you need to understand how attraction works and what is expected of both modern men and modern women.
Today, dating is not about just being nice, or having money. People are now looking beyond that and asking potential partners what else they bring to the table. Men and women alike are no longer okay with being with someone just for the sake of being paired up.
They want the whole package, and in order to get that whole package, you need to be a whole package yourself. Be honest and ask yourself if you would date someone like yourself. Would you want to date a partner who was better looking? Perhaps a partner who was more willing to compromise, or a partner who didn't smell bad?
Things like looks do matter a lot, even if it's not fair that they do. Even doing something like improving your appearance or physique can do major things. If you aren't employed, getting a job is a good way to show that you have some motivation and that you're looking to grow. If you don't do much outside of videogaming, you may want to look into hobbies.
Another issue that commonly causes major rejection is a lack of social skills or a lack of self-awareness. This is often indicated by behavior like lashing out at girls who reject you, sending dick pics to random strangers, or posting public rants about how women anger you. These things may seem minor to you, but they really aren't - and they're an indicator that you may need professional help.
That being said, you shouldn't focus solely on superficial things or things that you really can't change. You don't need to be over 6 feet tall, have a 6-figure paycheck, or have 6% body fat in order to get a girl.
Either way, in order to get a catch, you need to be a catch.
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